All that you experience in life will have some bearing on your level of comprehension of love...in all degrees. Once it has touched your heart, it is embedded. We all can learn from Life, as well as Love.

Love gave me a better understanding of the heart and our feelings. We can hide what is in our heart and definitely hide our feelings but cannot negate the "feelings" in our "heart". We try to curb our feelings in defense of our fragile state of our heart. Our feelings can be hurt but our heart can be broken, so to speak. Feelings are deep but the heart is deeper.

Just as God's love for us has no boundaries, we too must esteem to that level of understanding or we must abandon the thought that we truly loved in the realm of love. Through the pain we must achieve the belief that love is worth it. We must dance in life. We surely don't want to miss the dance...life is the dance.

We only have one shot at it people. Make the most of it. I do not mean that we walk through life oblivious to our surroundings. Rather, be conscience of the world. See it for what it truly is, not what it seems to be. I was even a part of the façade. The illusion of life is somewhat of the illusion of a magician. Once you realize that it truly IS an Illusion, it loses the mystic...such is maturity. The unveiling of the "trick" in life gives a new meaning to "life" as we know it...or try to know it.

"Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go." You must go as far as it takes to taste Love. The sweetness of it all. But be cautious...the possibility of True Love enveloping both the male and the female at the same time are statically proven to be doubtful and there is no need to injure the view you have at this time. I am only saying that it is worth wagering it all even if your mate does not love you and they are there for the convenience of someone to take care of them.

What I am saying is after you see the signs, and there will be signs, you must walk away for it is not love such as the Love that you want for the rest of your life. Even if it is only you that experience it, it is worth every moment. Realize the feeling and then move on. Now I will tell you first hand, it will probably be one of the most difficult duties that you will have in life but you must. I know...I almost married because of the feeling that I had in my heart and the feeling that she professed to me...mine was real but hers was not from the heart but was merely a convenience. I do not slight her for that. You must follow your heart.

If a mate looks deep into your eyes and tells you that they love you and that they never want to be without you and that you are their Soulmate find what the depth of the meaning of that word is to them. If you  treat that person like a queen and they come at you with a fit of anger and tell you in the next day that you are nothing, listen to them. No, I am not saying to believe it yourself, but only listen. Do not be clouded by YOUR feelings. Most of the time, in a rage that you will witness at that time, THAT is their TRUE feelings. Listen, for it is God trying to tell you that His Word is exactly as He says it is. Love is all enduring, love is not haughty, love is not selfish...listen to your mate, so to speak. If they listen to rumors, and there will be plenty of Satan soldiers to carry those rumors to their doorstep, be on guard. You can love to the deepest part of your Soul but if they cannot love or even understand what that word means, you cannot make it together for the rest of your life. Both have to understand and experience love before God's love can bind the two.